Men Immature...

by Peter James

Most women think men are immature. For the most part, they are right. Us grown men still like to play sports, video games and other child like things. This is because of how we think. We aren't always as serious as women pretend to be. Men enjoy competition. We go through this our whole life. It starts when we are little kids and we throw baseballs with our dad. We grow up playing sports, then we grow old and we get into the job market and we have to find a mate. All of those requires you to compete. So, all of our lives, we end up doing this. Women don't understand this.
This is also why they tend not to succeed in business like men do. They lack that drive to succeed, to compete. It is like a game. How many women CEOs do you see compared to men? There is a big difference in numbers.

On the other hand, there are some really immature men. Every time I watch Animal Planet, the men on the programs make me think of adolescent boys. They all act like if they seen a pair of tits they would have a heart attack. Maybe it has something to do with animals, hell I don't know. I can't stand to watch more than ten minutes because of this.

When a man acts immature, it doesn't mean they are lazy or a retard. Sometimes people can have emotional problems. Sometimes being abused as a child can have an effect on people. There is so much bad shit that happens in life, I am surprised if anyone can walk away sane from it.

If you have problems that stemmed from the past, I wouldn't beat yourself over the head about it. Instead, I would go to a therapist and talk to them about it. They will help you deal and cope with everything that has happened. If you don't have the money, try either getting government assistance or try to find a place that makes you pay on what they call a 'sliding scale'. This means, they will base how much you have to pay on how much money you make. Chances are it will be much cheaper and you will be able to afford it. If you have no money at all, you can go and talk to a minister for free. Most of the time they will be happy to talk to you and give you good advice.

Even though we might feel immature or down, there is no reason to go around pouting 24/7. We don't like when our women do this, so we should keep in mind they don't like it when we do it. If you are doing this, you need some help. You are trying to get pity to cover up your problems. Drug addicts use drugs to cover up problems, you use pity.

You shouldn't let mood swings get the best of you. This can happen if you have a mental illness. You get tired when your old lady has mood swings before her period and bitches you out all day long. Chances are, she hates yours as well.

There is no need to go on with life feeling this way. If you are just an immature guy because it is your nature, don't worry about it. On the other hand, if you have problems, I suggest you get help.

If you find yourself getting depressed often or thinking of killing yourself, its time to get help. There is no need to run from it. The doctor won't kill you when you go in. There is no surgeries, needles, or any of that stuff. They can't even force you to take meds or come back for a second visit. Simply put, they can't force you to do anything you don't want to do.

If you are having panic attacks they can effect your sex life. If you have panic attacks while having sex, it can be very difficult to maintain an erection. Hell, it is almost impossible to maintain a reasonable life when you have panic attacks.

If you find yourself unable to leave your house or without the desire to leave, you need to seek some help. There is no reason why you should put yourself through the horror of this living hell. Get on your feet and make the first step. It is important for you to understand that only you can help you.

If you feel like some of the things I described because you are being abused by your woman, you need to leave right away. Most people don't believe that a woman can abuse a man, but it happens every day. You don't deserve to be abused, you have done nothing wrong. You need to put your foot down and get the hell out. Let her ruin someone else's life.

Money should never be a problem when it comes to getting the support you need. If it is, try to find local support groups in your area. Talking to someone is better than no one. You can go to places online and find support groups and even ones you can talk to people online. You can talk to people and they will never know who you are. Most if not all of the online support groups are free. This means you won't have to pay any money to use them. You can go to places like yahoogroups.com and find support groups. It is a good place to start looking.

Friend, if you need it go get some help. There is no reason not to. You deserve to live a good healthy life. Don't kid yourself, you do deserve it.

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